What is the proper ETIQUETTE when asking a waitress or restaraunt bartender for their phone number?
Posted on November 23rd, 2009 by admin
I was at a restaraunt yesterday, and was dining at the bar. I hit it off with the bartender, but I felt kind of wierd asking for her number while she was working. I also meet alot of cool waitresses and feel the same way…..So how do I flirt and get their number while they are working?
WELL FLIRT WHILE THEY ARE WAITING ON YOU AND THEN SIMPLY LEAVE THEM YOUR NUMBER WITH THE TIP.
November 23rd, 2009 at 5:52 am
You don’t.
You need to realize they get hit on ALL the time.
There are no real ways to hit on a waitress or bartender where they work.
The best thing you can to is go to the place they work, and become a regular. During a slow time ask them about how they are. Over time, you can find out more information.
but don’t hit on them like everyone else does.
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November 23rd, 2009 at 6:33 am
As a waitress I can help you. just write your phone number down and give it to her.Also on that paper write down a spot to meet her after work, casualy ask what time she gets off that night, dress to impress!! Good luck!
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November 23rd, 2009 at 6:50 am
I agree with Adorabil. You should be a regular that she knows by name, but flirting goes both ways, and what you perceive as hitting it off may only be a person doing what’s expected to make a customer feel welcome. Treat her as respectfully as you would any other woman you would be interested in.
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November 23rd, 2009 at 7:26 am
Don’t ask for their number, leave yours with the tip.
they flurt, you flurt, they want to be friendly for the tip not your, not a date. if they call you great, but don’t expect a thing
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November 23rd, 2009 at 7:56 am
There is no nice way to ask – they hear that all the time! Be a brave man and leave YOUR name and number!:)
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November 23rd, 2009 at 8:01 am
As a few others have indicated, become a regular, and in so doing, a friend, first. Then if it’s going to happen, it will happen naturally.
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November 23rd, 2009 at 8:40 am
WELL FLIRT WHILE THEY ARE WAITING ON YOU AND THEN SIMPLY LEAVE THEM YOUR NUMBER WITH THE TIP.
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November 23rd, 2009 at 8:54 am
leave your number
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