What is the proper ETIQUETTE when asking a waitress or restaraunt bartender for their phone number?

Posted on November 23rd, 2009 by admin

I was at a restaraunt yesterday, and was dining at the bar. I hit it off with the bartender, but I felt kind of wierd asking for her number while she was working. I also meet alot of cool waitresses and feel the same way…..So how do I flirt and get their number while they are working?

WELL FLIRT WHILE THEY ARE WAITING ON YOU AND THEN SIMPLY LEAVE THEM YOUR NUMBER WITH THE TIP.

8 Responses

  1. Adorabilly Says:

    You don’t.

    You need to realize they get hit on ALL the time.

    There are no real ways to hit on a waitress or bartender where they work.

    The best thing you can to is go to the place they work, and become a regular. During a slow time ask them about how they are. Over time, you can find out more information.

    but don’t hit on them like everyone else does.
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  2. Trinity Says:

    As a waitress I can help you. just write your phone number down and give it to her.Also on that paper write down a spot to meet her after work, casualy ask what time she gets off that night, dress to impress!! Good luck!
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  3. Jen Says:

    I agree with Adorabil. You should be a regular that she knows by name, but flirting goes both ways, and what you perceive as hitting it off may only be a person doing what’s expected to make a customer feel welcome. Treat her as respectfully as you would any other woman you would be interested in.
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  4. angela k Says:

    Don’t ask for their number, leave yours with the tip.

    they flurt, you flurt, they want to be friendly for the tip not your, not a date. if they call you great, but don’t expect a thing
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  5. njgrl622 Says:

    There is no nice way to ask – they hear that all the time! Be a brave man and leave YOUR name and number!:)
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  6. worldinspector Says:

    As a few others have indicated, become a regular, and in so doing, a friend, first. Then if it’s going to happen, it will happen naturally.
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  7. flipfloplover44 Says:

    WELL FLIRT WHILE THEY ARE WAITING ON YOU AND THEN SIMPLY LEAVE THEM YOUR NUMBER WITH THE TIP.
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  8. Lefty Says:

    leave your number
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